Apologies/Lengthy Departure

[Sight]

Howdy.

It's been a while since I've been around, which is not super amazing for a site mascot.
And, I am still not in the greatest mental/emotional place overall, but I did want to at least speak up here to say that I am still around, and that I'm sorry for falling off the radar so suddenly, and for so long.

Back in June, I had a large psychoemotional crashout that hit very suddenly and very hard for many reasons that aren't super important to explain here, but it did major damage to my motivation to be social again, and turned me hard away from kink things after a hard realization that I did not have very many close social connections at all that weren't based either solely or heavily on lewd/kinky things, and it got to me pretty badly.

I'm also a lot busier now than I have ever been, thanks to working a 9-5 (7-3) job on top of my secondary gig work, so fatigue has been strong.
But, I have been at least managing now, despite the weight of the current world on top of my own garbage.

Wanted to speak up here since it's a bit easier for my brain than trying to individually nudge singular individuals one-by-one, but I am still going, and hopefully the social desire comes back sooner than later.

Do hope all are well here, and that things continue to stay that way. Or, hopefully they get even better.

[Draconniss]

Hello Sight. Im happy you are in touch with us. And im really sorry to hear about your situation. But im happy you getting better slowly, take your time to recover. We understand it!

And if you want to talk more about it one particular brown draggie is here to hear you out and cares about you. Brown draggie trying to check you out on regular basis.

Then if you want my messages are alway opened, im consider you as good friend and i want to help even we are far away from each other

[Izana Kunigiri]

I honestly don't see the need to apologize for taking the space you need! I understand why you did, and why you may have found it necessary, But your well-being comes far before anything else. If you ever want someone to vent to or even to just listen to what's going on, you're always free to reach out! *offers a high five, Even if I have to fly to offer it* You have my support!

[Rabbit]

Sorry to hear, take as much time as you need to take care of yourself, these rough times will eventually come to pass.

Take your time easing back into social exploration, meeting new people is surprisingly taxing on the mind. Even if some friends enjoy kinky talk it might be worth it to try opening up to the ones you have the most trust in, perhaps they're going through similar stuff as well. You would also have the benefit of common interest and avoid the awkward stage that comes with establishing a new friend.

Hopefully things will continue to improve for you as time goes on!

[Toneliv09]

Hey, hello, it's great to see you again!

Although, of course, I'm sorry about the situation you just described.
As others have said, we understand the situation you're going through and hope that it improves as soon as possible, so that you can feel more motivated and encouraged to interact with people.

Until then, I wish you a good morning, afternoon, or evening .

[KushCat]

Sometimes work and stuff can get stressful for me too but I'm glad your doing better now

[FodderForGayBirds]

I'm more hopeful that you are doing alright mentally than any activity that you may or may not have. All I can say is take breaks when you need. Set your priorities when you think they need a change. Do what you can, or don't if you aren't feeling up to it. Your feelings on social life or self esteem are valid.

[Smol Man]

Hey Sight, it's good to see you back. I'm really sorry to hear about your current situation and what's been going on. Really hope things improve for you soon and hey no need to apologize. Life is rough sometimes so taking a break if needed isn't something to be sorry about. Your mental health is very important after all

[DesmondTheFox]

Howdy.

It's been a while since I've been around, which is not super amazing for a site mascot.
And, I am still not in the greatest mental/emotional place overall, but I did want to at least speak up here to say that I am still around, and that I'm sorry for falling off the radar so suddenly, and for so long.

Back in June, I had a large psychoemotional crashout that hit very suddenly and very hard for many reasons that aren't super important to explain here, but it did major damage to my motivation to be social again, and turned me hard away from kink things after a hard realization that I did not have very many close social connections at all that weren't based either solely or heavily on lewd/kinky things, and it got to me pretty badly.

I'm also a lot busier now than I have ever been, thanks to working a 9-5 (7-3) job on top of my secondary gig work, so fatigue has been strong.
But, I have been at least managing now, despite the weight of the current world on top of my own garbage.

Wanted to speak up here since it's a bit easier for my brain than trying to individually nudge singular individuals one-by-one, but I am still going, and hopefully the social desire comes back sooner than later.

Do hope all are well here, and that things continue to stay that way. Or, hopefully they get even better.

I totally get that. I know I've poked you a few times on discord in dms, and I hope that wasn't too annoying to you. I don't really seek to make friends just for lewd/kink purposes. It often feels a bit hollow so I know the feeling. I was sure you were just going through some hard times and I was hoping that maybe a sweet little message to check in on you was something you might see, smile at, and feel event the slightest motivation.

Whatever is bothering you in life I really hope smooths out. We all have those times where we get stuck in those dark tunnels and life just sucks and everything is a struggle. But even if it keeps being a painful for a long time, I hope that you both know the light is somewhere at the end and there are at least a few people here willing to be friends aside all the fun stuff and we love to help encourage you. Like I tell most people I want to before than just a lewd/kinky friend, I'd love to be a shoulder you can lean on and someone you can vent to. Maybe I don't know what it's like to be you or go through what you do, but I'd like to take that time to be a friend who tries to know and understand if you'd let me or like for me to. But we all need our space as well. Take what space you need and if you ever need someone don't be afraid to give me a poke. You might be out beautiful Cerulean here but there is still someone behind that Dragoness and me and I'm sure others are here to support you~